By Funmi Akingbade (cafi.punch@yahoo.com)
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We all are aware that a good menu
consists of variety of food, in various forms. A menu is served with
various dishes, eaten with different levels of anticipation. So likewise
are sexual menus. It will be discouraging to create a special
appointment and at the end,there are no ‘special dishes’ to compliment
it.
You have to appear sexy to the taste of
your spouse because there are scores of individual childhood and adult
experiences that strongly shape their idea of what is and is not sexy.
You must appeal to your spouse’s sex taste bud. A sexy appearance helps
condition a mate’s arousal mood. Some of the things a wife must invest
in at all times are her undies and brassieres.
You must be current as to
the latest in town as this is one of the things that will easily get
the attention of your man any time any day. Creative lacy and bright
undies are preferred to the grandma type by most men and your cleavage
must be well-pronounced with a good push up bra. It is amazing how some
men think a pot belly is desirable to their wives. On the contrary, to
many wives, the ‘v’-shape of a well-defined abdomen is as tantalizing as
the female cleavage, especially when you place your boxers or panties a
little bellow your waist line. Placing your panties just above your
navel may dampen the sexy mood.
If there is one thing that can set the
adrenalin and testosterone of your spouse rising, it is the act of
flirtation. Unfortunately, many couples do this a lot while dating but
stop after marriage. Flirtations always predict and hint at the
possibility of an erotic, passionate and frivolous sexual encounter.
This is one of the secret yearnings of many spouses (a recapture of
frivolity in their marriage union).
When we flirt we play with our spouse’s desire for sex and set the tone of more things to come.
If you want the appointment to be a
night long affair, wrap your arms around each other and kiss at
intervals. This adds electricity to the nerves of your spouse. Also,
treat all the erogenous zones with kisses. Until you get to this point
you will never know that the feel of the soft mouth of your spouse
against your skin can be so wonderfully erotic.
For couples who have
been married for long and have developed some familiarity with the body
of their spouse, they can crave for something new. Just try body
kissing and you will discover that this is a wonderful way to surprise
yourself and your partner.
This spark within moments builds into a
fire, and sometimes it feels as though a lightning bolt has just
electrified your waist and loins. Before you can put yourself together
you are out of control. At this point, the husband should make sure that
his wife is also in the same ‘wild sexual mood’ as he is.
This will
provide a deep sense of connection and intimacy. An unexplainable level
of oneness and bonding is created immediately. If your wife finds more
sexual pleasure in longer foreplay, this is the time to give it to her,
to the extent of her abandoning her body in your arms. A wife should
seize this opportunity to whisper what she wants into her husband’s ears
in the sweetest form; direct his hands, fingers and hips to your
desired destination. Do not leave any stone unturned. If you are more
comfortable with the lights out, put them off and take this flight with
him. Do not use this forum to ask for any financial favour but rather
fulfil his sexual demands.
This type of sex not only binds, it
heals, elevates, re-creates, energises and creates a sense of purposeful
relationship and meaningful commitment. The aftermath of this type of
sex is always productive. It gives couples enough room and opportunity
to discuss issues that will take their relationship forward. It enables
them to preview and review, to tackle unresolved issues amicably and
find solutions to challenges affecting other areas of their
relationship.
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