Friday 8 August 2014

Two INEC officials caught moving sensitive voting materials in Osun


 Independent National Electoral Commission officials, in Obokun LGA of Osun state have been arrested for diverting sensitive voting materials ahead of tomorrow's governorship election in the state.
When interrogated, one of the men who is the Electoral Officer for the LGA confessed to the act but refused to name those who sent him as he pleaded for Mercy. A check on his phone log and text messages later showed he had been communicating with a chieftain in the LGA. 

Below is the INEC vehicle used in transporting the materials.....

The vigilant people of Otan-Ile would have lynched the suspects but for the intervention of police officers. The INEC vehicle with registration number FG816V01 used in transporting the materials and the suspects involved are presently held at the State CID of the Police Command in Oshogbo.

Sunday 27 July 2014

Talented kids doing what they know how to do best....Africa is great

Good job kids not minding the dust. I think this song is by Alick Macheso
God bless African. 



Lets appreciate these kids.
Kindly watch and you can also follow the link to like and comment.

God bless you.       

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Wenzhou China city river turns blood red overnight



A city woke up to find its river running blood red and nobody can quite explain it.
According to locals in the area, the water was normal as at 4am, but by the time it was 6am, the water had turned a frightening shade of red. An elderly resident who has lived by the river all his life says it has never happened before. 


Industrial contamination has been ruled out because there are no chemical plants along it length. Now environment protection officials in the Chinese city of Wenzhou are taking water samples to find out what is going on. Wenzhou is a well-known town in East China’s Zhejiang Province. The place is surrounded by mountains on three sides with the front of the city facing the Pacific ocean. 



The phenomenon echoes a similar incident in 2012 when the Yangtze River in China also changed colour. Officials claimed the blood-red waters were a result of sand distribution due to upstream flooding but sceptics were not convinced and social media sites were full of bizarre theories including one that it was the start of The Apocalypse.

What is happening, this is creepy! Oh Lord take control.

Saturday 21 June 2014

SEX & SEXUALITY- Are sex triggers in men and women the same?

Funmi Akingbade
Written by Funmi akingbade
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Do men really have stronger sex drives than women? Well on the average, yes, they do. Men have stronger sex drive than women but not in all cases, and what trigger men are far different from women’s triggers. Study has shown that men’s sex drives are not only stronger than women’s, but much more straightforward. The sources of women’s libidos, by contrast, are much harder to pin down, because women place more value on emotional connection as a spark of sexual desire and they are to a large extent influenced by social, religious and cultural factors.
Men under 60 think about sex at least once or twice a day, and have more spontaneous sexual arousal while only about one-quarter of women think about it that frequently. As men and women age, they fantasise less, but men still fantasise about twice or more as often with all sort of varied fantasies. At the start of any relationship, men want sex more often than women but, in the middle of it, and after many years, all things being equal, both may just be on the same frequencies. Sometimes men are more likely to seek sex even when it’s frowned upon or even forbidden.
Man’s sexual triggers are easily predictable while a woman’s sexual turn-ons are more complicated. They always seem not to have a clue themselves. While men easily agreed to be turned on by various sexual sights, majority of women are thoughtful about whom they become aroused by, who they want to have sex with and who they fall in love with. Statistics says highly literate women are wired to choose their life partners carefully; they are likely to be more attuned to relationship than pleasure.
But when it comes to sexual desire, men and women travel slightly different paths to arrive at sexual desire. Many women arousal desire originates much more between their ears than between the legs; it is more about the anticipation, how they get there that matters most to them. Their desire is more circumstantial, more subjective, more coated on a framework of emotion, at times sentiment and feeling.
But on the contrary men don’t need to have nearly as much imagination, sex is mostly basic simply and straightforward. That doesn’t mean men don’t seek intimacy, love, and connection in a relationship, just as women do. They just view the role of sex differently. Women want to talk first, connect first, then have sex. For men, sex itself is actually the connection. Sex is the language men use to express their tender loving vulnerable side. It is their language of intimacy.

Men, on average, take seven minutes from the point of entry until ejaculation; women usually take around 12 to 15 minutes to reach orgasm; some do not at all. Women’s libidos seem to be more responsive to happiness, love, tenderness, care, comfort and caring than drugs. Men’s sex drives seemingly seem more directly tied to physiological response. Compared to women, it may be no surprise that low desire may be more easily treated through medication in men. Men have embraced drugs as a cure not only for erectile dysfunction but also for a shrinking libido. But with women, more of understanding with medicine gets their libido revived.
Many couples love to see their spouse grow in sexual desire with them in the relationship. If you want your sexual desire to stand the test of time, it is key that you maintain a strong emotional connection with each other.
Be attentive. When your spouse is venting or sharing thoughts about any topic, listen. Really listen. Try to understand what they are saying and what their personal connection is to the topic. When appropriate, empathise and show compassion. Join your spouse in activities they enjoy. When you both enjoy the same activities, make sure to take advantage of the mutual interest. To nurture your relationship even more, spend some time participating in your partner’s interests.

Show your love in a way that connects with them. You might feel most loved when your partner says those magic three words or when they offer to help you run errands. However, your partner may not feel the same way. They might feel most loved when you are engaged in listening to them discuss their passion or when you encourage them to take on some feared but personally important challenge. So, learn what makes your partners feel most loved and offer it to them. Putting these tips into action is a great sexual desire growth and connection. Married couples can take things even further by brainstorming some ideas for connecting that are specific to their relationship and individual personalities. Even just participating in those conversations about connection can deepen the relationship and harmonise sexual desire.
Questions and Answers
If you give birth to a set of twins, your ejaculation will reduce; true or false?
It is a fact that if you give birth to a set of twins consecutively, the volume of your ejaculation will reduce and the quality of your semen will disappear. I happen to be a father of two sets of twins and ever since then, I have noticed changes drastically in what I produce during ejaculation while my sperm seems to be watery. When I was much younger, what came out of me was usually voluminous and very sticky. Should I worry if I am producing less while I ejaculate?
Baba Ibeji
Men of all ages mostly seem to be very obsessed with themselves and how they perform sexually. Ejaculatory volume and force seem to be something that they’re also very proud of. But as men get older, there are changes going on within the prostate gland which most times allow the volume of semen fluid to actually decrease. Sexual experience and the intensity of sexuality can change as well; this happens to all men, not necessarily because they are fathers of one or seven, of no child. Most times, men still feel the same; the orgasm is unchanged, but there will be less volume and less force to it and that is still part of natural aging. Reduction in ejaculation majorly also has to do with stress, fatigue, extreme frequency of ejaculation and extreme intensity of ejaculation.
Think beyond the bed
I listen to one of your lectures, please what are the practical ways for very busy couples to think beyond the bed.
Gabriel Salami
Thinking beyond the bedroom is just inventing some other sexy places and thoughts to enhancing couples’ sexual activities. For instance, there are many sexy places to get sensual besides the bed. Think of the kitchen, couches, bathroom, backyard or a pool. Getting innovative brings pleasurable sexual rewards. Since the time is not always available, both of you can just fool around with the few minutes you have. Don’t wait for when you are alone to make out with each other. Kiss your spouse when they’re on the phone with someone else, or take their pants off and give them an oral in the middle of a phone call. You can even play with each other’s bodies instead of just having sex. Quickly create a sexual setting and design your bedroom to revolve around sex. When you have some time in your hands, stand in front of each other’s wardrobes and start wearing each other’s clothes. Don’t forget the underwear too, cuddle up next to each other or get in bed and cover yourselves completely so you’re in the dark under the blanket. Think beyond the bed is just thinking up something usual to make up for good sexual life.
Does sucking breast leads to painful cervix?
My wife always refuses me the only thing I love during sex and that is to suck her breast, especially the nipples but she bitterly complains of pains. She says each time I place my mouth on her nipples, she immediately starts feeling pain in her cervix. Is this normal? What can we do to stop the pain so that I will not be denied of this only pleasure I looked forward to?
Suleiman Technician
I think the best thing to do is to be mindful of your techniques; the way and manner you do the sucking goes a long way. The cervix and breast are not biologically connected. The cervix is a cylinder-shaped neck of tissue that connects the vagina and uterus. The cervix is made of cartilage covered by smooth, moist tissue, and is about one inch across. There are two main portions of the cervix. The part of the cervix that can be seen from inside the vagina during a gynaecologic examination, then also an opening in the centre, known as the external OS, which opens to allow passage between the uterus and vagina. This canal is a tunnel through the cervix from the external OS into the uterus. The overlapping border is called the transformation zone. The cervix produces cervical mucus that changes in consistency during the menstrual cycle to prevent or promote pregnancy. The only time the cervix gets involved in sexual activities is during vigorous sex when the tip of the penis may likely touch the OS of the cervix and during childbirth, when the cervix dilates widely to allow the baby to pass through. Also during menstruation, the cervix opens a bit to permit passage of menstrual flow. So, you see the pain she is experiencing may be a mind-set issue and not from the cervix.

Tuesday 17 June 2014

Olympus Has Fallen!!!....Blog Visitor Narrative.



This is very interesting, I saw this on stelladimokokorkus i thought you guys might like to read about things bothering people especially the single ladies.


What do you do when Olympus falls? How does a man feel beholding fallen Olympus?

''Hello blog-readers, please i have a problem...
I'm 36+ will be 37 later this year....I'm still a virgin, a devoted born again and committed to God's work!

I'm chubby and heavily endowed with b**bs, i noticed right from secondary school in fact at primary school i have had big b**bs but the pathetic situation right childhood til now is that my Olympus *in stella's voice* have fallen!

I dont know why, no man has ever sucked my Olympus neither have i had sex b4!

But when i packaged myself well on clothes no one will ever know and my Olympus will be displaying as that of Toolz (infact when you see Toolz she's just a replica of me). Toolz is a perfect description of my person!

Now, i'm so worried now that i will soon be getting married to a young man of God, dont know if he would be disappointed discovering on our wedding night that my 'Heroes have fallen' away from what it appeared to be when i put on clothes or that he will take me for who i am!
Please readers, no insults but advice your sisterly/brotherly advice as to what to do!

Thanks!''.

I don't think anyone should be bothered about sagging breast at 36. 
If he truly loves you, He wont even care about your sagging boobs.

Saturday 14 June 2014

SEX & SEXUALITY : What is the goal of sex?

Funmi Akingbade
By: Funmi Akingbade 
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The “goal” of sex is pleasurable touch, not necessarily earthquake orgasm because sex is far more than intercourse. It includes sensually arousing touch that is best to enjoy for its own sake. Sex must be given freely as a gift, not forced or used as a reward or punishment. It is also essential to respect your partner’s style of arousal. While men are often aroused and then pursue sex, women often need a sense of emotional intimacy before feeling aroused and ultimately pursuing sexual intimacy.

Each partner is responsible for seeking to create sexual satisfaction for one another via good communication. It is important to talk about what turns you on and what turns you off; share desires and fantasies, as well as sexual hang-ups. There is no crime in modesty or boldness. What’s important is to be comfortable with how you connect sexually and the frequency you do so; and that you connect in a way that leaves you sexually satisfied. If your desire is low, acknowledge the challenge, you are taking good step toward improving your relationship. Many men put their wives in a tight corner when they look out for orgasm or climaxing from their wives, hence these women live a life of faking orgasm.
Many men wonder why wives fake orgasm. To them, it should be very simple. But ejaculation is easy for men while orgasm isn’t that easy!

It probably starts when a woman is not really feeling the passion in bed, or isn’t really turned on while having sex.
And she looks up at her man who is probably sweating, panting and exerting virile strength while penetrating her, to make her reach orgasm. And when a woman knows she’s just not going to climax anyway, it’s easier for her to just fake it instead of waiting for the elusive passion to overwhelm her and sweep her into a thigh quivering orgasm! Faking it and convincing her man that she’s just experienced a tremor in her loins would at least make her man feel proud of himself.

Faking an orgasm often is never good, not for the man, and definitely not for the woman! But in case men are wondering, it will surprise men to know that the biggest reason is pity. Yes pity, you’re not arousing her enough to bring her to climax, and she’s given up on achieving an orgasm. But she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings because she cares about you, and finds it easier to just fake it and end it. She knows you’re trying hard. She’s feeling bad about it, but for some reason, she’s just not able to climax. And she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings or crumble your confidence, so she lies to you just to see you smile proudly.

Another reason is that she’s not in the mood; she’s having sex only because you want it.
Some other time, the woman may just be preoccupied. There’s something on her mind, and she’s too distracted to enjoy sex. She may make love to you, but her preoccupied mind may just distract her from having a real orgasm. And sometimes husbands are just boring! When a wife notices that her husband is waiting for her, she can just give in to help relieve him. You’re almost about to explode, and she can feel it. You move in and out of her a few times, and you hold your breath like you’re trying hard to prevent a case of premature ejaculation, before continuing again. Or when she is in a hurry, maybe you’re initiating sex out of the blues, and she’s got better things to do. Perhaps, she wants to sleep, watch her favourite show, attend to the baby or get out and do something. What’s the fastest way to wrap sex up? Yeah, fake it! When a woman is under pressure to make it awesome maybe during your special day like your anniversary or a birthday, and if she doesn’t feel great that night, she might just pretend to be completely turned on and aroused, just to make sex more memorable for you.

When she is not comfortable with a particular position, be assured she will fake orgasm. Maybe you’ve read about a new position that you want to try, or you’re suddenly feeling very horny while watching the television. And you push her down on a hard surface, contort her body and penetrate her. She may try to enjoy it, but if it’s too uncomfortable to experience any pleasure out of it, she may just want to end it with a fake orgasm.

She’s never really had an orgasm! Well, there are many women out there who still don’t know what an orgasm is. They’ve had sex, and they have programmed their minds to squeeze their pelvis before a guy ejaculates. They just don’t know what it feels like to orgasm, and they don’t really care to fix it because they’re too used to it!
When a wife is angry, and doesn’t want to confront the issue or sit up talking about it and you are teasing her and seducing her into having sex, she may find it easier to just do the deed. Instead of picking up quarrels with you, on such occasion, she will fake orgasm.
When a wife is stressed out, inasmuch as she wants to enjoy sex, she may just be too tired to enjoy it. And if she doesn’t want to upset you or make you feel bad about your performance, she may just fake it.

QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
Blood with my faecal products during sex
I am 48 years old and for some times now, I have been passing out blood with my faecal products especially immediately after sex. I do not and have not practised anal sex before but this has become a normal occurrence. Is it an old age syndrome or what do I do?
Mr. Willy Amicus
This may likely be pile otherwise called haemorrhoid which is a swollen, inflamed anal vain or veins. It usually affects people between the ages of 45 and 65. Symptoms (which can include pain, itching, swelling, and bleeding during bowel movements) usually go away within a few days; but when it presents itself with bleeding or severe pain especially while having sex, you should see a doctor. Constant constipation and diarrhoea may lead to pile and it could be hereditary. Sometimes age, straining during bowel movements and overuse of laxatives and heavy lifting, or any activity that causes you to strain or increases pressure on the veins of your rectum or anus, can cause pile.
Simple diet and lifestyle changes can reduce your chances of getting pile and also reduce the strain and pressure on your rectum when passing stools. Proper hydration and regular exercise also can improve digestion and reduce rectal straining. When you feel the need to have a bowel movement, don’t wait too long to use the bathroom.

Can I ever get any woman pregnant?
Can I ever get any woman pregnant? I have a small penis and I ejaculate prematurely. I must confess to you that I am so dejected. Can a man ejaculate and pee at the same time? My friends say that is why I have not been able to get my wife pregnant?
Mr. Morris Gabriel
Yes, you can get a woman pregnant, even though your penis is small and you ejaculate prematurely, some sperm cells can mix with the new sperm in your urethra from a previous ejaculation if you go for the second or the third round of sex. However, you do not need to suffer in silence. Medication is available against premature ejaculation, weak erection and erectile dysfunction with the newly discovered herbs for small penis.

Do exercise, weight, and age affect fertility?
I am into sport and love what I do. Though I’m married, I have difficulty in conceiving and I have had two miscarriages already. My husband thinks my sporting activities and underweight are responsible for the delay. He insists I should stop what I love to do. My question is this, do exercise, weight and age affect fertility? We have a very good sexual life.
Biota Hygenous
Actually, moderate exercise is good for everyone and exercise should be encouraged for both women and men who are gearing up to try to conceive. However, excessive, strenuous exercise in women may result in disruption of the ovulation cycle, thereby affecting her periods. Normal exercise has not been linked to miscarriages (loss of pregnancy), but certain forms of exercise (for example, high-impact) should be avoided in pregnancy. Even in men, too much exercise may cause a low sperm count. A woman’s peak fertility is in her early 20s. At age 35 and beyond (and particularly after 40), the likelihood of becoming pregnant reduces. Even as men age, levels of testosterone fall, and the volume and concentration of sperm changes. A healthy diet is very important for women who are trying for a baby. Weight loss can disrupt a woman’s menstrual cycle and thereby reduce her chances of becoming pregnant. When trying to add some weight, be mindful that being overweight can affect a woman’s fertility and can cause complications during pregnancy.

Gang smuggled Nigerian woman to the UK to work as sex slave and forced her to undergo voodoo curse to prevent her from running away



Convicted: Gang member Johnson Olayinka was convicted of trafficking a 23-year-old Nigerian woman into the UK for sexual exploitation   


Johnson Olayinka

Guilty: Florence Obadiaru was also convicted for trafficking the woman. The court heard how the innocent girl was raped and forced to go through a voodoo ritual before coming to the UK
         Florence Obadiaru 

Three members of an international prostitution ring that smuggled a Nigerian woman into the UK to work as a sex slave under the threat of a voodoo curse are facing jail today. 

The gang conned the innocent 23-year-old into flying to Heathrow Airport on a bogus passport with the promise of education, a job and a new home.
Before leaving Nigeria, she was raped and forced to go through a black magic ‘juju’ death ritual to prevent her running away. 
But when the woman arrived in London, her employment failed to materialise. Instead, she was told she was destined to work as a sex slave in Italy, a court heard.
The plan was only thwarted when Italian authorities spotted her forged ID and sent her back to the UK.

It is believed the woman is just one of many victims of the group, based in Africa, that trafficks young women through England to work as prostitutes in mainland Europe.
Olusoji Oluwafemi, 44, Johnson Olayinka, 45, and Florence Obadiaru, 48, were convicted of trafficking the woman into the UK for sexual exploitation and arranging for her transfer to Italy.
Oluwafemi and Olayinka were also found guilty of conspiring to get the woman a false passport.
Oluwatosin Osoba, 48, was acquitted of the same charge following a trial at the Old Bailey.
Judge Rebecca Poulet said custody is inevitable and sentence was adjourned until July 11.

The victim, who only spoke a little English, had been recruited by a Nigerian local called Beneditta in her home village near Benin City.
Her family had struggled financially since the death of her father in 2008, but she aspired to become a nurse.

In February 2011, Beneditta offered to help the young woman by sending her to England to be educated properly and get a job, the court heard. 
She was told the cost would be £40,000 - which she would have to repay to the organizers.
Prosecutor Christopher Ames told the court:‘She had no idea at all what £40,000 was in her own currency, her life had been very hard after her father died, and she jumped at the chance to be educated and be trained for a job, and get away from the desperation and misery of her current family situation.

‘She was very excited, a naive young girl, at the prospect of going abroad.’
She was sent to the Nigerian capital of Lagos on March 23, 2011, to meet a man called Felis who made her a false passport and coached her in getting through UK immigration.
‘While he was doing that, he began to sexually assault her’, said Mr Ames. That led him to beat her with a belt and that in turn led to him raping her that night.’ 

When she complained to Beneditta the next morning, she was told: ‘It was what you should have expected’.
She was then told to pose for photos with a man who would pretend to be her husband.
In September 2011 she was summoned to the west African country of Benin to get a visa.
The woman was then told to swear an oath to repay the money in a ceremony that involved cutting her armpit and pubic hair and taking finger nail clippings.
The oath she was solemnly required to take was to repay that money, £40,000, on pain of death if she did not,’ said Mr Ames.
‘This was what was known as a juju ceremony.’
She was driven to Lagos on September 12, 2011 and put on a plane to the UK, meeting Olayinka at Heathrow Airport.

Olayinka, calling himself ‘Mike’, checked her into the Marbella Hotel in Peckham, south London, and took away her money and passport.
She was next taken to the house of Obadiaru, an old friend of Beneditta’s, and kept there for a few weeks with no sign of a job or education.
Obadiaru’s son, who suffers from learning difficulties, groped her on the first night in the house in Brockley, southeast London.
But when she complained, Obadiaru allegedly told her: ‘What do you think you are here for?’

The woman was told she was being sent to Italy on October 3, 2011, and collected another false passport from Olayinka’s home.
‘It was then for the first time that this very young girl from a small village in Africa, miles away from home, realised she was about to be sent to Italy to be forced into prostitution’, Mr Ames said
‘She came to that gradual realisation, and she suddenly remembered hearing conversations between some men and their girls in Italy.
‘She couldn’t speak Italian and there was no question of her being able to work in Italy in the normal sense.
‘She became very upset and fearful of what awaited her.’ 

The gang’s plan was thwarted by Italian immigration officials, who stopped the woman on an obviously forged passport at Milan Airport and sent her straight back to the UK.
After she was detained by immigration officials, the woman led them to the alleged identity factory in Osoba’s flat in South Bermondsey, southeast London, and laptops which had been used to make false documents by Olayinka.

Mr Ames said the National Crime Agency launched Operation Visionary after quizzing the woman ‘to penetrate and stop the activities of an organised crime group based in Africa and here in England, which has as its aim the trafficking of vulnerable young women from Nigeria to European countries, including Italy and France for the purpose of prostitution’
Oluwafemi, of South Bermondsey, southeast London, Olayinka, of Peckham Rye, southeast London, and Obadiaru, of Brockley, south London denied conspiracy to traffic a person to the UK for the purpose of sexual exploitation, and conspiracy to traffic a person out of the UK for the purpose of sexual exploitation.

Oluwafemi, Olayinka, and Osoba, of South Bermondsey, southeast London, denied conspiracy to commit an offence of possessing false identity documents.
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Wednesday 11 June 2014

Police Ordered To Arrest Sanusi, New Emir Of Kano, For “Fraud”




 The Nigerian police have been ordered to arrest the newly-crowned Emir of Kano, Sanusi Lamido Sanusi, on fraud-related charges stemming from his tenure as Governor of the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN).


According to reliable sources at the Presidency in Abuja, the team of policemen at the Emir’s palace in Kano received the order from the Nigeria police headquarters to place Mr. Sanusi under arrest if he leaves the Kano Governor’s lodge.

The source  also said that Mr.Sanusi was to be arrested at his private home on Sunday night after his appointment was announced by the Kano State Governor.  
Since becoming Emir, Mr. Sanusi has been inside the Kano State governor’s lodge, receiving visitors and undertaking traditional rites.

The source also told SaharaReporters that some notable northern leaders have already warned President Jonathan to avoid such a reckless action so as to avoid setting fire to the already volatile situation in the city of Kano.  It is not known if President Jonathan is favoring back channel dialogue aimed at resolving the mess.  Observers point out that he has yet to offer congratulations to the new Emir despite the PDP doing so.

Since ousting Mr. Sanusi from the CBN last February, the President has not relented in seeking to inflict serious damage on him for revealing that the President and his cronies stole at least $20 billion from crude oil sales over a two year period.  saharareporters


Monday 9 June 2014

Vivian family wants C’Embassy pastor to marry her corpse

Vivian, baby
The family of a 28-year-old woman, Vivian Ndukwu, has demanded that the marriage rites of their late daughter must be performed by a pastor of the Christ Embassy, who has been accused of being responsible for the pregnancy that allegedly led to her death.

It was gathered that the 29-year-old pastor, identified simply as Hillary, was being detained at the State Criminal Investigations Department, Yaba, Lagos.
He was accused by the family to have had a secret romantic relationship with the deceased, who was a choir member in the church.

It was said that in order to avoid scandals, the couple decided to keep the relationship a secret. The secret romance continued until Vivian became pregnant.
When it became obvious that they could no longer keep the pregnancy a secret, Vivian was said to have agreed with Hillary that she should relocate to Agbara town in Ogun State to stay with a woman who had an orphanage.
Vivian allegedly told her parents that she was going to Abuja. She stayed at the orphanage until she was delivered of a baby girl on May 3, 2014.

It was learnt that eight days after the delivery of the baby, Vivian was taken to a hospital after she complained of fever and headache.
She eventually died, while her remains had been taken to the Badagry General Hospital morgue.
The owner of the orphanage, Mrs. Grace Kato, however, claimed that Vivian never stayed at her place.
She said, “Vivian called me three days after the birth of her baby. She said she wanted me to help her with the hospital bills, that she was stranded in the hospital. Out of compassion, I went to the hospital to help.”
She admitted that she took Vivian home after delivery to rest at her place for two days before returning to her parents.

She added that Vivian, however, ended up staying at her place for five days before she died.
She said, “I brought her to my house to rest for a day or two before taking her to her parents. In the process, I had to travel for my uncle’s burial. That was why she stayed that long because she was waiting for me to return. I came back on Saturday night, May 10, and the next day, she complained of a slight headache and we took her to another hospital nearby. That was where she died.”

The hospital where Vivian was said to have died, claimed that she was rushed to the hospital unstable and restless.
According to a doctor in the hospital, the people on duty stabilised her condition and referred her to a general hospital.

The source, who preferred to remain anonymous, said, “She was brought in on May 11, at about 1.20pm, unstable and restless. The story was that her complaint started that morning. Her blood pressure was also high. Being that we were not in possession of her past medical records, we acted based on clinical situation and referred her to a general hospital.

“The people that brought her left and so there was no one to take her to where she had been referred to hours after stabilising her condition. Several calls to the number they gave us were replied with one story or the other. At some point, the lady started gasping, and eventually died. It was not until the following day that they came to pick up her remains.”

The father of the deceased, Emmanuel Ndukwu, told our correspondent on the telephone that the orphanage founder had agreed with her late daughter to take custody of the child after delivery without the consent of the family.

He said he and his wife knew nothing about the pregnancy, adding that his daughter left his house and told the family that she was going to Abuja.
He said, “After telling us that she was going to Abuja, we did not hear from her until her death. But we later learnt that Grace (orphanage owner) and her husband had organised a naming ceremony for the new baby without informing us.

Emmanuel said he was not aware of the relationship between the pastor and his daughter until the sad incident.
He said, “My family and the pastor’s family have met and we agreed that Hillary will perform all the marriage rites for my late daughter according to the tradition of our people. We are doing this because a child is involved. The pastor did not deny his responsibility, so the normal thing must be done.”

The state Police Public Relations Officer, Ngozi Braide, confirmed Vivian’s death and added that the matter was still under investigation.

She said, “The matter is under investigation at the Homicide Section of the SCID. The police is not aware of any negotiation between the two families.”  Culled