Excerpts From YES! Magazine
What makes a good actress? 
Your ability to get into character, your ability to identify a character, understand the character and be the character. 
What is your definition of acting? 
Becoming somebody else for the purpose of telling a story. 
Where do most actresses miss it? 
I think they never really know who their characters are, they don’t 
understand who they are playing, because sometimes you get a script that
 doesn’t give you the background story of the character that you are 
playing. It is your duty as an actor to do the background story – 
where’s the person from? You can tell these things pretty easy. By the 
way the person speaks, you would know if they were educated. For the 
family background, you would know the kind of schools they went to – 
primary schools; this gives you an idea of the sort of circles that they
 moved in and the sort of person that they should be. But most people 
don’t think about it – the character. They don’t want to understand the 
character, they do not totally become the character. 
 What got you interested incting in the first place? 
I think my sense of drama. I’ve always been a dramatic person, I love 
being the centre of attraction. For a long time I didn’t really think 
about acting as a profession, even though it was something I did on a 
regular basis. I put up performances at home, I sang, danced, disturbed 
everybody. It was when I was in secondary school I realized that really 
this is what I would love to do with my life. 
You’ve been acting now for over a decade, what has sustained you? 
The love for acting, because if I don’t have passion for acting I would have since quit.  
What don’t you like about being an actress? 
Everybody seems to think they have a right to talk about you at any 
point in time. I mean, we are Nigerians, we have a culture, we have 
traditions, we are a certain type of people, we are not oyibo, at the 
end of the day. And we are more concerned about other people’s feelings 
usually. But I notice that it’s like we’ve lost that or we don’t have it
 when it comes to our actors. We figure that because we watch them on TV
 all the time we own them. People don’t care if you have a bad day or a 
good day. When people come up to me and they say hi, I always smile and 
say hi back, because these are fans, these are people who have 
contributed immensely to my growth. Without them, where are you? No 
where! But you know, when you see pictures on the internet and the sort 
of comments people make, you start to wonder – is there a personal fight
 between them and this actor or not? Because some of the comments are 
unnecessary. 
What do you like most about being an actress? 
Being able to become somebody else for a short period and send a message across through the story. 
What is the greatest thing that acting has done for you? 
Hmmm! That’s a good question. I don’t think anybody has asked that. It’s
 the fulfillment of all my dreams. I think that’s the greatest thing 
that acting has been for me. It’s been a fulfillment of my professional 
dreams. 
What has acting not done for you? 
Hmmm! What has acting not done for me? It’s not made me a proper 
business person (Laughs), because you know, in Nigeria, we don’t have 
structures in place to safeguard actors. 
What are the advantages of being a known face? 
You do get recognition anywhere you go, people are sometimes happy to 
see you; it’s unbelievable the warmth that people extend to you on the 
road and sometimes people just say the most innocent things that make 
you so happy or makes your day and you are like oh, whaaooh! I mean, 
somebody walks up to you and says I bought a film that you were in – 
like when I did Widows, The Mourning After. Some woman saw me and said I
 went through that and watching the film got me to a point of self 
realization that I didn’t have to do all the things that they asked of 
me. And for me that was perfect. So, those are the things that make me 
happy about being an actor. 
How about the ones that make you sad? The disadvantages… 
The fact that everybody asks me for money (Raises voice). I don’t 
understand that. I buy your film, give me money. Why? Do they realize 
that I work? It’s a profession, it’s a job. Unfortunately, our medium is
 television, so we are seen everywhere. But it’s a job like being a 
banker, being a doctor. Do you see bankers and say give me money; I go 
to your bank, I have an account there so give me money or you  tell a 
doctor, come, I use your hospital, give me money. But they do that to 
us. Everywhere you go – petrol stations, people on the streets, 
supermarkets, they ask for money. 
Which of your movies do you have fond memories of? The one that anytime you remember, smile takes over your face… 
(Laughing) – I’m thinking really hard. Let’s see which film. Several! 
Not one! I think Freedom in Chains, which we shot for a UNPA. That’s a 
branch of the United Nations and it was for propaganda to talk about the
 female child, female education and to stop early marriages, rape, child
 abuse, so many things. I mean, that’s one of the movies that I remember
 like that. Out of Bonds, The Gardner, Widows, The Mourning After. Yeah!
 Those movies. 
A lot of negative stories have been written about you, which of them still pains you and which do you always remember? 
I ignore it, sorry! I ignore it. And do you know why – I’m not as bad as people think.
Do you sometimes think about marriage? 
Of course, I do. Like every human being on earth, I do. Marriage is such
 a huge step, it’s deep. Marriage is the relationship that is the most 
difficult of all relationships. If I can’t see someone and say oh, yeah,
 I wanna be with this person for the rest of my life or even think it, I
 won’t do it. I say that all the time and people say oh my God, she said
 she would never marry, I can’t believe it. That’s not what I’m saying 
(Voice rising). I’m simply saying if I don’t see someone that I believe I
 can look at for the rest of my life, I won’t do it. 
So, what do you want in a man? 
Someone that has principles, integrity, someone that’s kind, someone 
that’s funny, someone that’s clean (Chuckles). Very clean! Someone 
that’s compassionate. You see, it’s not about being tall, dark and 
handsome, it’s not about money. We would work for it together or 
whatever. My mum didn’t marry my father a rich man. So, I don’t put much
 emphasis on money.  
it’s not about money or looks, it’s about your heart and your head. So, 
for me o, I have to be in the person’s heart and the person’s head. 
Intellect and you know, human feelings.  
 
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